How many interesting experiences have you had with your partner recently? See how many simple and cool things can be done to create more complicity between you.
The life of a happy couple is based on partnership. Doing things together, satisfying each other’s tastes, and being happy for the other’s happiness is what gives the relationship meaning. Within that, living new experiences is essential, as in addition to making life as a couple more interesting, it contributes to individual fulfillment.
Discover a new and challenging place
This is a tip especially for couples who do not have children or who have already raised their own. But, of course, adventurous couples with kids can do it too. The intention of getting to know a new and challenging place as a couple is to get out of the routine and the comfort zone.
Going through challenging situations that require making decisions together, discovering new landscapes together, going through travel experiences together, meeting new people, and being in a place with a different language strengthens the union and creates incredible memories for the future.
Have an experience you only have with a best friend
Each person has an interpretation of that experience. Some would get drunk, others would take a shower in the rain or go for a walk in the woods and camp. Your partner should be your best friend, your best companion at all times. You know that classic question, “who would you take to a desert island?” If the answer is “my boyfriend/husband,” congratulations, you have the right person! Your best friend!
Prepare a romantic surprise for two
Who doesn’t like to be surprised by something amazing, that makes them feel amazed and special? Of course, preparing a surprise for your lover, thinking of something that he will really be surprised and like, is another thing you should experience together. The pleasure is in preparing the surprise, in the challenge of not letting your lover suspect anything and, of course, in the joy of seeing his happy face when he is surprised.
Do “nothing” together
Even if you have young children, as soon as the opportunity arises to let them spend a weekend away from home, enjoy your free time together! Usually, the couple takes the time to organize their home and life, solve problems, in short. But doing nothing by choice is wonderful and necessary.
I mean, it’s not exactly nothing. You can plan to do something you did when you didn’t have so many responsibilities, like going out for ice cream, watching movies, spending all day in bed, or on the porch talking. Just be together, in the present moment, enjoying each other’s company.
Having a different sex
Of course, there could not be missing a tip to spice up your sex life. Here’s what the couple wants, as long as it’s something different, that you’re curious, but you never have enough time or energy to do it. Enjoy a weekend alone, enjoy that the house is yours alone, or leave the house and feel the emotion of a different place.
Take a shower together
This is a tip that can be done as part of the previous one, but it doesn’t necessarily have to have sex. In fact, when you’re in the company of the right person, sex is a complement, not an obligation when you’re undressed. Taking a shower together can be an opportunity to relax, talk, play, have a massage, and laugh a lot. Take advantage when you have this chance!
Do something “handcrafted” together
Some like to cook, others to plant, build or renovate things at home. Take on a project together, something new that allows you to help each other develop new manual skills. Sharing a learning experience with your partner is creating a more complicated relationship between you, and it can even become a hobby later on.